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DBlogWeek Day 4: Mantras and More

A mantra is defined as:

  1. a sound, word, or phrase that is repeated by someone who is praying or meditating
  2. a word or phrase that is repeated often or that expresses someone’s basic beliefs

When my daughter was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and long before I ever knew that the D.O.C. existed or that there were blogs about type 1 diabetes there were a few of these mantra’s that we would mention. After I found the D.O.C. a few years into this journey, I found that a few others have also used them as their mantra’s. However, right now, I can only think of the following one.

One of my favorites since starting this journey with Little Miss is, “It never gets easier, you just get better!” I’ve since found out that it is part of Stick With It Sugar’s name. Maybe even the catch phrase or mantra over there.

We also use catch phrases/mantras like:

  1. You’ve got this! / You can do it!
  2. Never give up!
  3. Diabetes won’t stop you!
  4. Give it all you’ve got!
  5. Hakuna Matata! A great mantra from Lion King! 🙂

Little Miss also likes the phrase “Peace, Love and Diabetes!” She learned that one at camp and has a t-shirt with that saying on it.

We tend to break into song quite often in our family. And sometimes we turn the song into something powerful like we did for our walk video to Katy Perry’s “Roar!” – we did a parody and called it Cure!. Sometimes it just something off the wall and silly like the hit song of “What does the fox say?” we have started singing “What does the Dex say?” and putting the beeps for the alerts (high, low, fall, rise, calibrate and out of range) into it.

Sometimes, it’s the silly stuff that helps get you through the hard times. Looking back at where we’ve been and how far we’ve come are always reminders of the strength you have when you feel like it’s you against the world. Finding something positive in what you are struggling with, doesn’t make things easier or better, but it does help you push forward.

DBlogWeek Day 3: What Brings Me Down

Starting this blog off singing the song we wrote for our walk video this past February.

It brings me down, but I get up! Yeah!!! It’s never gonna make me stop!

Dealing with a chronic disease every day and every night takes its toll on a person.

It’s not just the  blood sugar numbers, yeah that’s a big part  of diabetes but it’s not the only part.

There’s a lot of math involved as well:Counting, adding, subtracting, dividing  of carbohydrates, fiber, activity, adjustment of blood sugar all just to figure out how much insulin is needed!

Then let’s remember to figure in emotions and other external  stresses! They affect  everything way more than you would possibly know! Pet beta dies,  blood sugar hitches a ride on a spaceship with a destination of too HIGH! And it doesn’t want to come down anytime soon.

I never know if my daughter’s attitudes and behaviors ate from high or low blood sugars, or just her acting out.

Add all of this into the sleep equation and life takes on a new meaning! It’s like having a newborn baby, that never grows up!

I’m thankful that when I’m feeling the big d burnout, I’ve got a lot of great friends who are always willing to listen. The pwd’s, d-mamas & papas in this club are some of the most amazing and down to earth people I’ve ever  had a chance to meet. They’ve all been there, they all know what it feels like and they might even offer suggestions.  There are so many resources out there of you’re looking for them. Books, vlogs, blogs, podcasts just look around and you’ll find something!

JDRF has been an amazing resource for us as well. They are willing to help you find someone to talk with if you need it. One of the first diabetes connections I made was through their mentor program.


DBlogWeek Day 1: Change the World

It’s DBlogWeek. And the topic for day 1 is Change the World. Does anyone else hear Eric Clapton’s song “Change the World” playing in their head?

We do our part to ‘change the world’ by helping to dispel myths about all things T1D.

We hope that eventually people will understand that T1D isn’t caused from eating candy or drinking pop. It isn’t caused from too little or too much exercise. There is NO CURE for T1D.

Having a pump doesn’t mean that your diabetes is automatically in control. Having a pump doesn’t mean that you never have a low or high blood sugar. Having a pump means less shots of insulin.

Checking your blood sugar, giving insulin injections, putting in an insulin pump site or a CGM sensor aren’t fun, and they can hurt. You never get use to them, no matter how long you do it.

T1D isn’t a one size fits all disease. Just because it works for one person, doesn’t mean it will work for everyone else.

We will continue to work on dispelling myths about T1D, in hopes that someday people will not believe the myths.

This past year we participated in the Spare a Rose, Save a Life campaign around Valentine’s Day. We spared roses and helped supply life saving insulin for a child. Over $27K was collected and 454 children’s lives were saved for a full year! How amazing is that?!?!

Classroom Treats and Birthdays

Celebrating birthdays don’t just happen at home or out with family and friends but also at school. This past weekend we celebrated turning 12. We went bowling with family and friends. We had delicious cupcakes. We dealt with low blood sugars. But we had an amazing time celebrating.

When the weekend was coming to an end we had to figure out what to take for the classroom treat. Classroom treats have to be store bought and if possible individually wrapped. Not to hard or a choice, right? Most of the kids take cupcakes or brownies. Something full of sugar.

My daughter was concerned about a few of her classmates. She has one classmate with celiac – so she can’t have wheat and gluten. She also has a classmate that has a nut allergy.This makes things more difficult. Other kids bring things that are full of gluten and the one girl never gets to have the treat that is brought.

I think that having diabetes has made my daughter more compassionate to others around her. My daughter has had her share of being left out of snacks and classroom treats because of there being no nutritional information and not having someone around to help figure out how many carbohydrates and therefore how much insulin she needed. She didn’t like seeing her classmates and friends go through the same things.

So after questioning a few different people we know who have food allergies to find a good snack that she could take to school for her birthday treat, we decided on individual bags of baby carrots and mini boxes of raisins.

Healthy and all natural  treat.

Healthy and all natural treat.

They are naturally gluten free, nut free and healthy! She was worried that kids wouldn’t like the snack and that they would make fun of her choice for a treat. After school I asked how the treat went over and she told me that everyone loved her choice.

Showing birthday treats for the classroom.

Showing birthday treats for the classroom.

Healthy and natural treats are always good, no matter what the age or occasion. I wish more parents would send healthy treats to school.

High with a Chance of Ketones

Tonight my dear daughter’s pump site became disconnected. Now I don’t know how it happened or even when it happened. But it did happen.

Her blood sugar was high when I put her to bed, I gave her a correction thinking that maybe I didn’t calculate carbohydrates correctly for dinner.

Then two hours later, I recheck her blood sugar again to make sure it is coming down. Instead, her glucose meter greeted me with HIGH GLUCOSE OVER 600! So I roll her sleeping body over to find her pump site no longer attached to her little body.

I don’t know how long she was without any insulin, but I do know that when the words HIGH pop up on the glucose meter that there is always a chance of ketones. So I got her pump ready to go, got a new pump site on her body and the pump going again with a massive correction. Then I checked her ketones. Yep, they are present. It will be a long night.


2014 JDRF Walk to Cure Diabetes Family Fundraising Letter

It’s hard to believe that February 22, 2014 will be our 6th year walking at the JDRF Walk to Cure Diabetes. It will be our 5th year of having our own family team.  On November 23rd, we celebrated my 5th year of living with Type 1 Diabetes.

Last year, at the walk, I was one of the “Thank You” Kids. I went up on the stage in front of thousands of people to help hold up letters that spell out THANK YOU when the total amount raised for the walk was announced. I was scared and excited to have the honor to participate.



Over the past year, I participated in many activities. I am a member of the 4H program in my county. For the past 3 county fairs I have done a project on Type 1 Diabetes. I hope that my projects will help educate others about this autoimmune disease that affects millions of people.

I played volleyball and softball through the community ed program at school. I participated in the Girl Scouts swim team for the second year.  I participated in two 5K runs this past summer and plan to participate in more. Every day I show the world that no matter what diabetes throws my way, I WON’T let it stop me from doing what I love.  I love to attend diabetes camp; it is my “home away from home for one week!”

I wear an insulin pump and a continuous glucose monitoring(CGM) system. Sometimes I feel like a robot or cyborg, with everything that is attached to my body. I poke my fingers to check my blood sugar approximately 10 times a day. My insulin pump site is changed every 2-3 days, and my CGM site is changed once a week. When I sleep my mom makes sure that I stay safe. She checks my blood sugar and gives me sugar when my blood sugar is too low, and gives me insulin if my blood sugar is too high.

I enjoy raising money for JDRF, to help find a cure for diabetes. JDRF is the largest charitable supporter of T1D research; JDRF is currently sponsoring $530 million in scientific research in 17 countries. In 2012, JDRF provided more than $110 million to T1D research. In 2012, Forbes magazine named JDRF one of its five All-Star charities, citing the organization’s efficiency and effectiveness.

JDRF was created, and is still led by people with a personal connection to T1D. Whether it’s providing funding for a late-stage clinical trial, advocating faster regulatory approval of new devices, or partnering with a company on research that might not otherwise receive funding, every decision JDRF makes is driven by their commitment to achieving a world without T1D. We are proud to be part of the JDRF team, where we are working with them to turn Type One into Type NONE!

I am also doing what I can to help find a cure, by participating in different research trials with T1D Exchange. I dream of saying, “I once had Type 1 Diabetes” and being able to say thanks to all the amazing people, like YOU, who helped in finding a cure! We have started our fundraising campaign for 2014, with a goal of raising $3000 as a family, and $6000 as a family team this year. If you would like to join my team, please go here to register as a member of my team. If you can’t be with me on walk day, you can register to be a virtual walker and walk where you live. I hope you will join my team and help me meet my fundraising goal this year.

Please help us reach our goal and help find a cure for Type 1 Diabetes.  Your donation is tax-deductible. You can support us online here or you can make a donation in person or by mail. We look forward to seeing your name on our list of friends helping to find a cure! Help make Type One into Type NONE! We can’t do it without YOU!

Dreaming of a Cure

Countdown to the JDRF Walk to Cure Diabetes 2014

82 days until our JDRF Walk to Cure Diabetes 2014!

We have a lot of fundraising to do over the next 82 days! Our family team is going to shoot for raising $6,000. A few fundraising ideas we have so far:               


Sneakers with messages of support  from classmates.

Sneakers with messages of support from classmates.

  • We will be selling scarves, boas, jewelry.
  • We will be putting out change buckets again.
  • We will be putting out JDRF sneakers again.
  • We are hoping that the school will allow us to do a fundraiser of sneakers through the whole school. As well as my daughter wants to do a change challenge like she did last year between her pod of classrooms.
  • We will be mailing out our family walk letter and asking our family and friends to help us in raising money to help in finding a cure.
  • We need to recruit more people to register for our walk team, the more people we have helping raise money means that each person has less to raise to meet the team goal that has been set.

We will be blogging about our countdown to the walk, and what we are doing. We will also be blogging about what the walk means to each of us. We hope to get a few guest bloggers as well. So if you are a family member or friend who has been with us for these walks, we might ask for you to write something up for us to post on here.

Diabetes Month Photo a Day – Day 30

Day 30: Future

Diabetes awareness month has come to an end today, but we will always help bring awareness so that others understand type 1 diabetes.

While we dream for and hope for a cure for type 1 diabetes in our future, we know that it is a long and windy road. Along the way we will stumble and fall many times, yet we will get back up and carry on. Every day we will do this. Until there is a cure.

The future for a person with diabetes is long and uncertain.

The future for a person with diabetes is long and uncertain.

Another dream for the future is the career my daughter wants to pursue. She wants to be a veterinarian or a veterinary tech. She loves animals and wants to work with them.

A future helping animals.

A future helping animals.

Diabetes Month Photo a Day – Day 29

Day 29: Travel

Diabetes doesn’t take a break when you are traveling. When traveling you need to pay attention to time zone changes. These changes can affect when your insulin is delivered, and if you’re on a pump it can affect your basal rates.

An increase in activity and excitement can cause blood sugars to be more unpredictable. While we were on vacation we noticed that my daughter’s blood sugars seems to run more on the low side.

Diabetes never takes a break, even while you're on vacation.

Diabetes never takes a break, even while you’re on vacation.